Question:
I'm 20, beautiful, fashionable, smart but clueless in what i want to do in life.?
coco
2012-01-04 07:53:12 UTC
hi guys I turn 21 in July and right now im feeling very very clueless about the things that i want to do in life. my dad is very successful and looks to me as being the same way. my mom is very much struggling and i dont want to be like that. this is basically like my SECOND chance in getting my life together. i start some classes on the 23rd so im in school. i live with my dad, im looking for a part-time job which i would find, i have a car to get around but i feel like im waisting time b/c i DONT know what i want to become IN LIFE. if i had to write a 5 page paper on where i want to be in 3-5 years i wouldnt KNOW :( today my dad is making me write one to discuss it with him but i dont even know what to write. please i need some help on maybe the things i could be?

i love fashion, shopping, i love helping people, i love kids, i like to write, i like to bake... im 5'1 and reallyy cute... no boyfriend..no kids..im a really good person but i feel like im walking around not knowing what to DO :(((((

i know i want to have my own home and be gone away to maybe a university but i just need some suggestions??? plz someone talk to me.
Five answers:
Amaretta
2012-01-04 08:00:04 UTC
Personal shopper, personal assistant, professional organizer, interior designer, image consultant, home stager, visual merchandiser. It sounds like you'd be ideal for a career that involves helping people one-on-one to look better, function more efficiently, or live in a more organized fashion (assuming that you're at all organized yourself). Because you're so petite, you'd probably be safer working only for female clients.
Cyril Fegan
2012-01-04 16:53:10 UTC
Hi Coco,

I have three suggestions:



1) Go visit your local Volunteer Service and ask to see a service officer or make an appointment to speak with one. When you attend your appointment, be upfront as you have been in your letter above and the volunteer service person should be able to help you in a 'volunteer position' that will give you an insight about the requirements of that type of work. Volunteering is like 'shadowing' an experienced job worker. See # 2 below.



2) Go walkabout in any large shopping mall and when you see a person engaged in a profession that takes your interest - go talk with that person. Have a prepared list of questions such as: What attracted yo to this type of work? What do you enjoy most/least about your work? Is there on-the-job- training? Ask about getting work-experience = shadowing someone so that you observe and learn what the job entails. The advantage of work-experience is that you get to sample and experience what the job is all about and if you like the work, then you may be offered gainful employment or at least you will know the type of work you would like to try out.



3) Purchase a copy of a book titled - What Color is Your Parachute - an American publication covering Job Search and Career Change. It is revised November each year and it is better to purchase a copy than borrow one from your local library, because you will continually dip into it and there are many exercises to complete.



One sure fired way to find gainful employment is to target any company that you would like to work for by way of a Speculative Job Application. Why? Because advertised vacancies attract a great number of applicants, whereas, a speculative job application is like walking into an office and saying - "Here I am, I'm ready to work." You will be the only applicant.



Your local library will have books such as: How to write a resume, How to write a Cover Letter. You could of course have a Professionally prepared Resume and Cover Letter.



Very best wishes for your career.
Collin
2012-01-04 16:06:30 UTC
Your what used to be called a seeker, that’s for enlightenment, back in the 60's. just enjoy your life until you find your self drawn to you destiny.



You sound like the perfect female ? If your telling the truth you don’t even nag. I might suggest a job in social services, but that’s a job that can destroy people, eats you alive. You have a moral fibber that’s your problem, and that’s some thing that seams to be going out of fashion.



Your best bet is to look at what’s needed in your area, youth groups Etc. Think of what really interests you, see if you can find some thing there. Watch the news read Bloggs, if you find your self saying that shouldn’t happen, you have found a course.



My best wishes to you in your life’s journey.



Hope this helps. CDR
Doc Martin
2012-01-04 15:58:42 UTC
"I'm 20, beautiful, fashionable, smart...i love fashion, shopping...im 5'1 and really cute..."



This is called being a parasitic bimbo.



Take the "Strong Interest Inventory" test to see if there's anything you're good for.
c2thej2theizzo
2012-01-04 15:55:14 UTC
How about the Culinary Arts - everyone needs to eat!


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